The lie leaders tell themselves about burnout


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Reader,

There’s a phrase that sounds practical in a meeting, but usually points to a much bigger issue: “We just need more people.”

It sounds like a staffing problem, but sometimes it is really a leadership design problem.

Adding more people may ease the pressure temporarily, but it will not fix unclear priorities, broken workflows, slow decisions, or work that keeps expanding without anything coming off the table.

That is how burnout becomes part of the operating model. The team keeps moving, high performers keep absorbing the pressure, and the work continues just enough for the deeper issue to stay hidden.

I wrote an article about this recently, “People Are Not Commodities,” because capacity is not just about headcount. It's about focus, clarity, sustainability, and how well the work is actually designed.

If you lead people, manage a team, or have ever felt like adding more people didn’t actually solve the problem, this is worth your time.
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Is This Issue Already Showing Up in Your Team?

It may be a design issue.

A lot of leadership challenges don’t begin with obvious breakdowns. They begin with quiet overload, scattered focus, and teams carrying more than they should without anything clearly shifting.

That’s the kind of work I help leaders unpack.

I offer complimentary calls for leaders and organizations who want to step back, assess what’s really happening beneath the surface, and make clearer decisions about how work is structured, prioritized, and supported.
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Our Advisory Service Page is Now LIVE!

If your team is dealing with competing priorities, strained execution, unclear systems, or leadership challenges that need a more strategic perspective, you can now learn more about how I support leaders and organizations through advisory work.

This is for the work that cannot afford to stay stuck, unclear, or constantly carried by the same few people.

Virtually Yours,

Donna Franklin West, MHA, PMP, CSM

Leadership & Project Alignment Strategist

​DFW Advisory | The Virtual PM​

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